Category: love

  • Are you still using Romeo & Juliet as your model for “love”?

    With this one article, I hope you will understand why relationships create so much trauma. We see this trauma all around us. But by looking at the seed level, we can transform it. A tweet from Dr. Wayne Dyer on Wednesday raised some great chatter about love in the community. Here’s his thought: “In any…

  • If this doesn’t move you…

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gePQuE-7s8c Gabrielle Bouliane performs for the audience at the Austin Poetry Slam. Her poetry reminds us that whatever happened to us in the past, all the details of the day, really mean nothing. What we focus on drives our life. This would be her last public performance. Gabrielle was diagnosed with Stage Four Cancer shortly…

  • Joy, the ultimate reason for sex

    If you can go on growing in this intimacy, which is no more excitement, then the joy will arise: first excitement, then love, then joy. Joy is the ultimate product, the fulfillment. Excitement is just a beginning, a triggering; it is not the end. And those who finish at excitement will never know what love…

  • The 3 stages of evolution: excitement, love, joy.

    When we are spiritual adolescents, we’re all about excitement. As Tim Ferriss points out in the 4-Hour Workweek, most people are not sad, they are bored. Most fill themselves with alcohol, TV, Internet, work, relationships, because they are bored. I find entrepreneurs become workaholics because they would be bored without this distraction. Who wants to…

  • Why can’t we forgive? (And a process you can download!)

    Forgiveness has been spoken about for centuries by most faiths and great teachers around the world as the way to peace and happiness. We’ve understood the power of forgiveness in psychology and health for decades. It’s such a common concept it has become a cliche. This can be a problem given the old idiom: “Familiarity…