People just don’t understand what love is, so they suffer. Most Westernized people think love is when you can’t live without someone or some object. Any doctor will tell you that actually sounds like a disease. Atisha, a Buddhist monk in the 10th Century echoed what love really is: “Love is the wish for others […]
“Love is the wish for others to be happy.” ~Atisha Read More »
Conditioning creates who we are. We’ve been conditioned by movies and people around us, who don’t know much about love, to SAY the words “I love you.” From the time we are small, we are taught to say the words. Our mind is conditioned to find the one person we can love, as if love
“I am love” not “I love you.” Read More »
With this one article, I hope you will understand why relationships create so much trauma. We see this trauma all around us. But by looking at the seed level, we can transform it. A tweet from Dr. Wayne Dyer on Wednesday raised some great chatter about love in the community. Here’s his thought: “In any
Are you still using Romeo & Juliet as your model for “love”? Read More »
If you can go on growing in this intimacy, which is no more excitement, then the joy will arise: first excitement, then love, then joy. Joy is the ultimate product, the fulfillment. Excitement is just a beginning, a triggering; it is not the end. And those who finish at excitement will never know what love
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When we are spiritual adolescents, we’re all about excitement. As Tim Ferriss points out in the 4-Hour Workweek, most people are not sad, they are bored. Most fill themselves with alcohol, TV, Internet, work, relationships, because they are bored. I find entrepreneurs become workaholics because they would be bored without this distraction. Who wants to
The 3 stages of evolution: excitement, love, joy. Read More »